How to Unhook from Addiction
A new year means new resolutions—here’s how to stick to them
Welcome to your first week of change.
Five days ago, you most likely made a resolution involving one of the big three. With any luck, your agreement with yourself to exercise more, weigh less (always No. 1 on my hit parade) or stop smoking and/or imbibing will last out the week. Read more
Not Keeping Up with the Kardashians
How Justin Bieber saved me from Kim
Just when I thought I’d be turning in a column about the nadir of entertainment, Kourtney & Kim Take Manhattan (10 p.m., Sundays on E!), I channel surfed my way to finding “the Biebs” rockin’ out on NBC with Rockefeller Center as his stage. Read more
‘Cheating’ on my Retail Therapist
After a saleswoman harassed me, I decided to shop online
My next purchase is a mouse click away.
As much as I like to support New York City businesses and their salespeople who rely on commissions—especially now, when everything is on sale—I don’t think I should be made to feel uncomfortable, guilty or awkward while spending my money. I realize that Manhattan is a competitive place even in a good economy, but when two sales associates almost threw down in my (formerly) favorite Madison Avenue store, I decided to rethink my mode of buying.
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The Jury’s Still Out
Dante’s Purgatory and court duty have a lot in common
I was being sent to prison.
At least that’s how it felt when the summons for jury duty showed up in my mailbox.
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Just the Facts Ma’am
Don’t criminals learn anything from cop shows?
We should call them New York’s “Findest.”
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Don’t Hate Me Because I’m Married
Single or married, let’s respect each other’s decisions
The minute Governor Cuomo signed a law legalizing same-sex marriage, I began hearing how wedding planners, catering halls, florists, DJs—as well as divorce lawyers—started licking their chops at the new crop of potential clients.
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View From a Bridge
The DDC is helping preserve New York’s architectural gems
I spent a recent morning walking over the Brooklyn Bridge and back. It’s not really that big a deal, people do it every day. But what made it significant for me is that I’ve never done it before, even though I’ve lived here all my life.
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Putting ‘Sweet’ in Sweet 16
Teen turns down ostentatious b-day for charitable fundraiser
The Vera Wang gown. The celebrity DJ. The 10-layer buttercream cake shaped like a skate to carry out the ’70s “Stayin’ Alive” roller disco theme.
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No Clichés at High School Reunion
Jealousies and feuds of teen years forgotten at get-together
If asked which I would rather relive, high school or college, I would not have to think twice.
Even though I was hardly the dateless geek of John Hughes-movie lore, I still considered those four years my unjust incarceration between the simplicity of grammar school and the freedoms of higher education.
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Through the Bridal Shower Looking Glass
How I decided that I wouldn’t live a “parallel” life
“I feel like her life is going off and getting perfect, and mine’s just like… PLURRRRRRF,” says Kristen Wiig’s character in the new movie Bridesmaids.
It’s as though the screenwriters had been eavesdropping on the conversations of many a New York woman still looking for love. I know it sounds a lot like I did decades ago when I found out my cousin Donna was getting married.
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